Millions of men and women love sports. In fact, many are
obsessed with their favorite sports teams. I understand this because I am the
same way. I am obsessed with my favorite sports team (the New York Yankees and
New York Jets). Unfortunately, many times in our love of our sports teams, we
forget the importance of loving God. So I write this blog as a reminder to
focus first on loving God, before we love our sports team.
"I the LORD do not change. So you, the descendants of Jacob, are not destroyed.
Malachi 3:6 (NIV)
God is not human, that he should lie, not a human being, that he should change his mind.
Numbers 3:19 (NIV)
Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.
James 1:17 (NIV)
It was June 12, 2014. I had gotten home from work and was preparing to
leave again for a retirement party. I saw the look in my wife’s face as she
spoke on the phone with the doctor. The only question was going to be, “how bad
is it?” I knew something was wrong with my oldest daughter, but I had no
idea what it was or how bad it was going to be. I also knew I wasn’t
going to any party. My wife informed me quietly that the doctor told her that
Eliana had Type 1 Diabetes and we needed to take her immediately to the
emergency room at Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia (CHOP). She also said we
needed to bring a bag – because she wasn’t coming home that night. I was
baffled. I have type 2 diabetes, so I could not fathom why we needed to
take her to the emergency room- let alone spend the night. I was
completely ignorant of what it meant to have type 1 diabetes. We brought Eliana
home from CHOP after 3 days. My daughter’s world and our world changed that
night.
“
Type 1 diabetes is an autoimmune disease in
which a person’s pancreas loses the ability to produce insulin – a hormone
essential to turning food into energy. It strikes both children and adults and
is unrelated to diet and lifestyle. With T1D, there are no days off, and there
is no cure”- JDRF.
The only way to receive insulin is through injection. It is tough injecting
insulin in a six-year-old child before
every meal and even large snacks.
We have to constantly monitor her blood sugar- if it goes too low she could
lose consciousness and suffer brain damage. She could go too high; we have to
check her blood for Ketones (one of the many diabetes terms I had never heard
of before June 12). All you need to know about Ketones is that they are toxic
to the body. Eliana has been low plenty of times. She has been high
plenty of times. We have a great team at CHOP- but really it is all on my wife
and I to monitor her and make numerous decisions each day. Eliana does
not like having diabetes and she verbalizes that feeling often. My wife and I
have not had a good night sleep since her diagnosis. Eliana tells me her
stomach hurts every night. We have had to navigate through school. For the most
part they have been helpful. However, it is alarming how much the school
district does NOT know about diabetes.
Things that I feel after 8
months are common sense seem like grandiose requests. It has not been
fun. I realize as I think back to June 12,
people have been
praying for Eliana and my family. I know they have, because I feel God watching
over her and us. The night her blood sugar was below 50 and for no reason my
wife went and checked on her as she slept, He was watching. Every time I
see Eliana laughing and playing, I know He is watching. My wife and I
watched her and her sister walk 3.1 miles for the JDRF/One Walk for a World
Without Diabetes fundraiser. We knew God was watching her as she completed the
walk with pride. Now Eliana has a Continuous Glucose Monitoring(CGM) device
inserted into her body, so we can always know what her blood sugar is. At some
point she will probably have an insulin pump attached to her body. These are
major life changes she has undergone at the age of six as a result of having
type 1 diabetes. God, however, does not change. As a result, when the
world around us changes, we can still have hope. I know that no matter
how much our lives change, God’s love for my daughter does not. He can do
anything. He can cure her or He can choose not to. But most importantly He
will not change. We can depend on Him to get through any challenge. When
things change, He will not. You too can have that same assurance, if you trust
in the Lord.
The Super Bowl is now over. Peter Carroll lost that game in a manner worthy of the New York Jets. However, I digress, my focus is not on the Seattle Seahawks. The New York Jets have fired Rex Ryan and John Idzik. Things will hopefully
be changing for the New York Jets. I am a New York Jets fan, so I am
always skeptical. I hope things will change for the best for the Jets.
Many Jets fans, myself included, were really excited to hear that Charley
Casserly and Ron Wolf were advising Woody Johnson in regards to his leadership
quest. Two years ago Woody blew it when he kept Rex and hired Idzik. But
the truth of the matter is, Woody was right to keep Rex. He made a huge mistake
in hiring Idzik, any half competent G.M could have led the Jets to having at
least 4 more wins. So we were excited to hear these respected names will
be advising Woody. And then came the name Doug Marrone. I was
initially, excited to hear that he was available and would be one of the
candidates interviewed. He was a former Jet coach and offensive
coordinator for the New Orleans Saints. My excitement left me as soon as I saw
the quote from Woody speaking on Marrone quitting his Buffalo Bills head
coaching job, “ pretty good news.” Uh oh. This is the man that said,“you
can never have enough Tebow”.
Marrone should have been
a candidate for the head coaching job. He
should not have been
the candidate for the New York Jets job.
Woody Johnson is the common denominator of all of our struggles. He has proven
that he cares about his team and that he wants to win. He tried hard to get the
Jets their own stadium, he opened up his checkbook during the Tannenbaum GM
years, he even kept Rex after last year. However, he is not a football
man and he has made choices that have hurt the franchise (not re-signing Revis,
bringing in Tim Tebow, not hiring someone with a strong personnel
background after firing Tannebaum). So after hearing his quote about Marrone, I
began thinking the worst. Not only had he already made up his mind, but he was
not even going pick a G.M first. Then came the backlash from the media about
Doug Marrone. Conflicting reports then emerged regarding his interview. One
said it was great; others said it was terrible. Either way he disappeared as a
viable candidate. What happened? Did he really have a bad interview or
does the owner of my favorite football team have no backbone. Was he simply
afraid of the negative publicity? I did not want Woody to hand Doug Marrone the
job like he was Bill Parcells. I did want him to consider him (Marrone
got an endorsement from Kein Maawae and even Bill Parcells) and choose him if
he was the best man for the job. We may never know what happened, but we
do know Woody is in no position to get the benefit of the doubt. So
finally, the New York Jets and Woody Johnson announce the hiring of Mike
Maccagnan GM and Todd Bowles H.C. I don't know that much about Maccagnan
except he was scout for many years and the Director of College Scouting for the
Houston Texans. I know he is a talent evaluator, personnel guy and football
man. He is everything John Idzik was not. I know much more about Todd Bowles.
He is a former football player, he was a former defensive backs coach for the
New York Jets, and he coached at the collegiate level. He was an interim head
coach for the Miami Dolphins and defensive coordinator the past two years
for an excellent Arizona Cardinal defense. Bowles was also one of the most
sought after head coaching candidates this off-season. He is Rex Ryan- like in
his defense prowess, but he maybe much more. I am very happy and excited
regarding this change for the New York Jets. Our scouting department has
completely changed, our coaching staff has completely changed. It appears the
GM and coaches will focus on making the Jets a well rounded team. That will
be change. Woody Johnson for the moment appears to have made the
correct call. He seems to have learned from previous mistakes. Although, not
one game has been played yet, I am confident in my owner's decision and that is
a change.
I am hoping that by the time I post this, The New York Yankees will have made a
major signing in Free Agency. If not, it will be safe to say that things
have changed. There is no way that in previous years the Yankees would
have let other teams sign their players in free agency (See Russell Martin,
Robinson Cano) or outbid them. At the risk of getting carried away the Yankees
did sign Elsbury, McCann and Tanaka for 400 million last year. In addition,
Cano was offered 25 million a year(even though the old Yankees would have
offered more considering that Seattle offered equal dollars). However, we are
now at year 2 without a playoff appearance and we have been outbid and lost
players. It was clear the Yankees were targeting, Chase Headly, Brandon
McCarthy and presumably Dave Robertson. Well, they went after Miller
instead of Robertson, signed Headly and were outbid by the Dodgers for
McCarthy. The New York Yankees are a team we are used to seeing get the
players they want. Brian Cashman went out of his way to say the Yankees were
targeting McCarthy- only to be outbid by the Dodgers. Looks like things
are changing. The starting rotation got much weaker with the loss of
McCarthy and Shane Greene. They provided quality depth for our
oft-injured/aging starting five. They also traded more depth when they
moved David Phelps. Sorry but Nathan Eovaldi seems like a downgrade
compared to Shane Greene. With the recent trade of Shawn Kelly (which I
lose no sleep over), it appears the Yankees are trying to save money. I
would be remiss in not mentioning that the Yankees have attacked the
international market. Cashman has signed Dermis Garcia SS Dominican Republic,
Juan De Leon OF Dominican Republic, and Nelson Gomez 3B Dominican Republic, all
of 3 are rated in the top 10 for international amateurs. He may also sign
Cuban SS phenom Yoan Mocada. I will give him credit for these signings.
However, as of now I remain uncomfortable of losing our mystic as the big bad
Yankees. Unless the New York Yankees are gearing up for a major signing to
upgrade our weak offense or sign a top-notch pitcher to combat our numerous
pitching questions- I will be forced to admit that things have changed.